Each year on Air Force Day, I remember the jovial Shreya Shukla who was with me at AFSB 4 Varanasi for NDA interview. We stayed together for a week.

Shreya got selected as Air Force Fighter Pilot and I couldn’t get through that Interview.

Years later in “The Week” Magazine we appeared on different pages. I was holding a mouse for an interview about a website launch and there was also a story in the same magazine about Flt. Lt. Shreya Shukla having lost his life in a MIG crash.

Always remember you on #AirForceDay Flt. Lt. Shreya Shukla.

I am always amused about destiny and our appearance in the same issue of The Week Magazine.

राजनीति नही महाभारत का युध्द

एक ओला कार का ड्राइवर मिला GJ01CYxxxx, उसने कार चलाते हुए ये वचन बोले।।
“ये राजनीति नही महाभारत का युध्द है। जिनके पास काला धन है वे हैं कौरव और जो PayTM इस्तेमाल करते हैं वो हैं पांडव। अब आप ही बताओ कितना सत्य है और ये महाभारत कौन जीतेगा? सारा हिसाब मालिक रखता है।” उसने चलाते चलाते और ज्ञान दे डाला।
I was impressed by his philosophy and gyan till I realized that he had taken a Wrong turn and took my extra 3 kms with the new route. When the trip ended, I paid him 98 Rs. And marked it 2/5 as a bad trip.
I finished my work and again opened the Ola App , on request for car I was surprised I was allotted the same car again GJ01CYxxxx. I travelled the same route back with shortest route this time and driver did not speak anything while driving. Trip was over & charges were Rs. 85.
I couldn’t mark him 5/5 since I marked him 2/5 earlier with negative comments.

My favorite books on Writing

Some of my favorite books on Writing are:

The Tao of Writing by Ralph L. Wahlstrom

On Writing – A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King

The right to write: an invitation and initiation into the writing life by Julia Cameron

Bird by bird: some instructions on writing and life By Anne Lamott

Writing down the bones: freeing the writer within  By Natalie Goldberg

The right to write: an invitation and initiation into the writing life By Julia Cameron

The true secret of writing: connecting life with language By Natalie Goldberg

The Psychology of Creative Writing





Jabalpur, A town known as cultural capital

I was born in Jabalpur (Madhya Pradesh) in India. The town is famous for various personalities who made it big in spiritual circuits. Maharshi Mahesh Yogi, Mahant Swami Maharaj & Osho (Rajneesh).

The small town has some disadvantages when one charts a career for the want of resources and connections.

River Narmada at Bhedaghat, Jabalpur (M.P.) India Image Courtesy

Just two days back i joined a “Books and Beyond” group in WhatsApp on an invite by a young friend and well wisher. I was excited, curious and wanted to know more about books.  I felt a bit perplexed. One because the group had 99% ladies whom i hardly knew. Secondly the books being discussed were not read by me earlier and i felt same low self esteem as i did when i was studying in Hindi Medium School till class 8th.

Studying in Hindi Medium School strengthened my Hindi vocabulary and vernacular first language but in career it was English which i knew was going to help me speak a global language and help in clearing competitive exams in career.

I took some early lessons by a English Teacher in my colony who was catholic christian and help me get on with Wren & Martin in class 6th and 7th.  I am still learning the language and vocabulary but it caught me on with the language.

As luck would have it my job in IT Industry started with Indian Languages on Computers i.e. with Multilingual Computing and we did killing business till Unicode came into picture and global software giants also adopted it.

The point about small town syndrome is that being in a place and studying in a college where local politics and mindset were not so nurturing, i personally haven’t gone back to my Alma Mater since 1995.  But recently when i wanted to share memories of the place and town Jabalpur, I got enthusiastic responses and collaboration proposals for writing and curating blogs on Jabalpur.

The images shared are by Pratik Patki from Pune & we hope to bring more blogs on this topic soon.

Till then, Enjoy your weekend.

(To be continued….)



Friday Fever- Movie

This Friday it had to be “Toilet – Ek Prem Katha” , A Hindi Bollywood Movie based on a social movement to build toilets across the country. I heard on radio that 58% of humans living in this ancient country do not have access to basic necessity.

Being a Hindi speaking and fan of Krishna the god who mentored Arjun during the battle of Mahabharata, this movie has some scenic shots of Holi Festival from the Vrindavan.

A must see movie of all caste, creed and breed.

It is indeed nice to have socially sensible movies which change the mind set of people and help them grow in their life.

Akshay Kumar, Bhumi Pednekar and Divyendy Sharma played their roles with a perfect 10 score.

If you are aware of any loyalty card which promotes Friday Movie fever especially first day show, please do let me know.


Mall Culture & Indian Mentality

I visit mall for two reasons. One, there is a movie screen & two I feel energized and feel good about being at a classy place.

Yesterday when i visited the mall and sat on a bench to observe the people coming to the mall, i realized all kinds of people. People well dressed , executives, people with slippers and some boys geo-tagging the shops in the mall.

What was most striking that the shops were mostly empty despite putting up 50% sale or some similar attractive displays. People did window shopping, ate some food, saw some movie, enjoyed AC environment and ambiance and left.

It made me wonder about the cost break even of running a shop in the mall. With high franchise fee, maintenance cost, salary and brand support, the shops must be having a difficult time in keeping customers happy.

What has been your observation? Please do share your experiences and some great offers you have come across.

Look forward to hear from you,




Sabarmati Ashram


Sabarmati Ashram, the place resonates with Mahatma Gandhi. I never noticed the word ashram and during the second trip i was little mindful as to why it is called an Ashram.

During my first visit i just looked at the houses, place and people around. I really did not look at it carefully.

So yesterday when i visited it, i started with Map and also a WiFi Digital Ashram Tour on Mobile. The WiFi tour did not open well on mobile and allowed me to be mindful during the walk around the ashram.

Reading carefully each word on the display, i realized the story is clearly written on the walls. I allowed myself to read the words carefully about the history of the Ashram and freedom struggle.

Look at the display written below.


The written text tell so much about the story on relationship.

I would highly recommend you to spend quality time here at this place. And yes there is a hotel called Hotel Toran opposite the Ashram where you get a Gujarati Thali for Lunch.

Why are you pursuing this course?

When i told my colleague Vivek Bhattacharya (24×7 Learning) that i was enrolling for Advanced Program in Strategic Management, he asked me this question “Why”?

For me learning has been a passion. Most of the jobs i take up are for learning something new. The course was one of the three which i had applied at IIM-Calcutta why sending the application but i was shortlisted for this program.

For me fee in 2008 was hefty for an upcoming online course like this one. But what did i get?

Apart from the learning on a subject like Strategic Management, Case Study Method and Online Learning through NIIT Imperia, what i  got was amazing list of peers in the program.


(Tejas Lagad, Baldev Ghanshani, Deepak Motiramani)

As three of us met in 2017 at Ahmedabad, we realized that networking with old peers and pals teaches a lot of life and profession as a whole. All three of us were part of technology industry and could learn a lot over a small conversation over breakfast.

An program/ course gives you a great set of people whom one connects with. The connections and contacts are important to carry forward in life, learn and also share the learning with peers).

I am sure the college graduates shall take note of this and keep connecting beyond the online world of Facebook and LinkedIn.

(To be continued….)

WhatsApp has become boring?

Same revolving messages & images from one group to another. Friends who just forward you messages and think they are connected and in touch. But frankly, I am bored with WhatsApp.

Yes it is a great tool to exchange information. But it is great so long as it is a useful information. Notice the unwanted messages you get every morning.

One has an option to spend unnecessary time reading those messages or finally delete and stop using WhatsApp.

Since past few days I have thinking of deleting and doing away with WhatsApp. What holds me that sometimes (May be 1% we get useful messages).

If this trend continues, I may switch to instil a habit of opening my data once a day to discipline myself but it looks difficult as the temptation to do something is always there.

Do you resonate with the same feeling as I have? Please do write back before I delete WhatsApp.

Let’s Watch Indu Sarkar

I would have preferred to see Lipstick under My Burkha this weekend. A college junior  (Raj Tomar) visited my place and since i wanted to take him to movie, he preferred Indu Sarkar. “Sir politics ke bare mein hain”. Seeing his enthusiasm and liking for the topic, i surrendered to the choice of young generation.

I was expecting a movie on late prime minister instead it was on a character in the similar times played by Kirti Kulhari. I was a bit surprised by finding the movie hall empty with hardly 20 people sitting in a capacity of around 120 people.

Madhur Bhandarkar has touched a sensitive topic with a sensible ease.  The characters are well chosen and dialogues are finely crafted to evoke certain feelings.

It was interesting to watch the movie and then google the real characters during Turkman Gate Incident in Delhi in that era.  History can be a great teacher if read properly.

All in all 4 out of 5 for the movie. That one point is missing due to lack of good songs in the movie.

#PaisaVasool #InduSarkar #Movie #Politics #Emergency